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to my dear friend,
I already tried but still cannot answer your question. And I found this from our Holy Quran, so let our God answer it for you, and may this can help the others who have the same dilemma like you.

Dan janganlah kamu nikahi wanita-wanita musyrik, sebelum mereka beriman. Sesungguhnya wanita budak yang mu'min lebih baik dari wanita musyrik, walaupun dia menarik hatimu.
Dan janganlah kamu menikahkan orang-orang musyrik (dengan wanita-wanita mu'min) sebelum mereka beriman.
Sesungguhnya budak yang mu'min lebih baik dari orang musyrik walaupun dia menarik hatimu.
Mereka mengajak ke neraka, sedang Allah mengajak ke surga dan ampunan dengan izin-Nya.
Dan Allah menerangkan ayat-ayat-Nya (perintah-perintah-Nya) kepada manusia supaya mereka mengambil pelajaran.

Do not marry unbelieving women until they believe: a slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman. Even though she allure you.
Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: a slave man who believes is better than an unbeliever even though he allure you.
Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire.
But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of Bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: that they may receive admonition.

Al-Baqarah : 221

djakarta
march 28, 2005
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